“How much have you changed since you first entered Orcom?”
If I were to answer this question, it would probably take me a minute or two to think about it. The question already implies that change or changes did happen and yet, I feel things are pretty much the same. Nevertheless, looking back from the day I took my transferee admission exam to this moment, writing my third blog entry, I can certainly say there are changes.
“I Am changing..”
I remember during my early years in UP Manila, I used to spend so much time listening to music. I download and burn Mp3s, and play them in our PC and CD player. One particular song I used to play was “I Am Changing” from the movie Dreamgirls. The song is a bit melodramatic. Some of the lines are “I’ll be better than I am..I’m trying to find a way to understand..” As a newcomer in UP Manila back then, I liked the song because I could relate to it.
Everything in the university was slightly new to me. I did not immediately understand its culture–complex and intimidating. Being conservative as I am, I didn’t know how to deal with the change; I felt at a lost for some time. To the point that I even had frustrations of leaving. But that’s not really an option. That’s the most coward thing to do, at least in this situation. Might as well face it, and learn from it, I thought.
Change is inevitable.
As we always hear, change is the only permanent thing in this world. It happens as much as every seconds of the day. It cannot be stopped; it is inevitable. That’s the reality we deal with each and every time; that’s the reality we need to understand and work with. Change is inevitable because wanting better is inevitable. Change usually happens for a good reason: improvement, development, or progress. Unfortunately, not all are able to realize and accept that.
Change, likewise, is scary.
Have you ever experienced having this one thing for almost your entire life, and then one day, suddenly losing it? Perhaps some of us may have experienced being used to having someone around and then out of the blue that someone had to leave or be replaced–a helper or a Yaya for example. Change can be like that, scary and hurtful. These are at times the reasons why we choose to stay attached and find security only to the things we have for the longest years. We reject all possible changes because we’re afraid that if we do, we might feel lost and out of place.
Change requires understanding.
When we understand, I mean truly understand, why something has to happen, the change wouldn’t be so bad, and scary. The first step, I guess, in understanding is opening up. Learning to open yourself, at least being aware of the things that are happening or might happen, would help in realizing the effects, and perhaps the significance of changes.
Changing ways of communicating.
Just the same, change happens with how we communicate, specifically in the media industry. All these things I’m saying about change can be applied to the changes that we experience in communication. Being used to the “we tell you“-broadcast approach, and a little of “tell us, and we tell you also“-interactive approach, and now being introduced to the new “we tell each other“-social media approach.
Basically, these changes happen because of the ever-changing and improving technological advancement. The change happens because people actually crave for it. People wants to be better; some people recognize that and that’s why they do things to make it better. Then again, change becomes better if and only if, again, we understand why change should happen.
Ever-changing world.
Change is always there. Although, change does not happen immediately in your life unless you completely allow it. It is important that you analyze the change; carefully discover the things behind it and the things it may bring you. Change can be good; change could be bad. It all depends on how you adapt to the change and make use of it to your advantage.